And you keep on concentrating on the things that you wish you had or the things that you wish you didn't have, and you sort of forget what you do have.
When I first watched this video this morning, I thought to myself, "I'm so thankful I'm not like that guy." After letting everything sink in, I now realize how selfish and conceited that thought truly was. Yes, I am thankful that I have arms and legs, but I am jealous that I do not have Nick's attitude or outlook on life.
I like to think of myself as a fairly optimistic person, but in reality, what has happened in my life to warrant a negative attitude?
I grew up in Suburbia. The worst thing that happens there is the drive-thru at Starbucks backs up too far and blocks the front row of parking spaces. The only time I ever saw the "projects" in my city was when I was lost, and we got out of there as quickly as possible - that's why I'm still alive.
What fascinates me about Nick's attitude is that his "handicap" gives his life meaning, and he uses that to encourage others. His message is not about guilt - I have no arms and legs, so be thankful for what you have. Instead, he knows that he is beautiful just the way he is, and he encourages others to adopt that mindset.
